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篇1:换种方式教育宝宝
换种方式教育宝宝
说到孩子的教育,每一个做父母的都有一肚子话要说,虽然家庭情况不同,教育方式也各有千秋,但目的都是希望自己的孩子能快快乐乐地健康成长。可是并不是所有的付出都会得到良好的效果,有的家长就抱怨说,只要我一说孩子就烦,说什么“老一套,又来了”,不说不行,说了就崩,真不知道该怎么办才好。的确,家长苦口婆心却适得其反的现象并不少见,但在这个时候,做父母的不应该只怪孩子,也应该反思反思,看看问题出在哪里,能不能换种方式使孩子能够更容易接受一些。其实,只要有心、有创意,家庭教育同样也可以富有情趣。
我的朋友有一个可爱的小男孩,当这个孩子有了一些阅读能力之后,我的朋友便开始尝试着给孩子写一些不同内容的小纸条,哪怕只是三言两语。她把这些小纸条有时放在孩子的铅笔盒里,有时又悄悄放在孩子的玩具箱里,甚至冰箱门上、镜子上、枕头上,只要是孩子能看到、能找到的地方都曾经是她的目标。她希望当孩子意外地发现这些小纸条的`时候能带给他一份惊喜,也让他能够真实地触摸到父母对他的关注和爱心。
看得出来这是一位非常有心的母亲,她这样做确实是动了一番心思。首先她抓住了小孩子好奇心强的特点,当小孩子看到一件他从没有见过的东西时一定会琢磨半天,而当他发现了一张小纸条的时候,他一定会迫切地想知道那上面到底写了些什么。因此当他能够读懂上面的内容时他一定会很高兴,这样就比较容易集中注意力,也会留下比较深的印象。
其次文字和语言有着不同的特点,语言稍纵即逝,有时候说好几遍也不一定留下多少印象,容易这个耳朵进,那个耳朵出。而文字则克服了这个弱点,只要不把它毁掉,那么无论什么时候都可以拿出来看看,而且每看一次,感觉都在重温一遍,印象自然比较深刻。
除此之外,选择这种方式还为父母与孩子之间的交流提供了方便。应该承认,大部分的父母并不善于用语言来表达自己的感情,特别是当孩子逐渐长大之后就更不容易和他们在一些问题上进行面对面的交流,而孩子们需要的也不仅仅是吃好、穿好。在写给孩子的纸条上,既可以有对孩子的表扬、鼓励,也可以有对孩子的批评教育,而这时的内容起码应该是有理有节,循循善诱,这与暴风骤雨式的训骂与呵斥相比,不仅考虑到了孩子的自尊心,也更容易被孩子所接受。
最后一点,这样做对家长也是一种考验,它不仅可以让孩子对父母有更多的了解与尊重,坚持下去说不定可以逼着你同孩子一起进步。因为随着孩子年龄的增长,纸条的内容将不再是单一的表扬啊、批评之类,逐渐会扩展到推荐一本书啊,介绍一篇好文章啊,留下一个需要动动脑筋才能回答的小问题啊,甚至包括对某个观点的探讨等等,内容开始五花八门,这就对家长提出了更高的要求,写什么,怎么写,想必还得动动脑筋,当然这也是很有意思的。
而当孩子长大些后,他也一定会加入到这个游戏之中,这对于他的思维能力和写作能力的训练也是一种帮助。如此来来往往,家庭教育同样可以增添不少乐趣。
由此看来,写给孩子的纸条虽小,但它的作用却不一定小,有兴趣的家长不妨试一试,也许它会给你带来意想不到的效果。
篇2:换种方式表扬
换种方式表扬
日常生活中,总有少不了的孩子调皮,往往这些孩子很少被老师表扬,也是老师带班时最头疼的问题。镜头:抬头看看墙上的时钟,离家长来接孩子还有十分钟,几个调皮的'孩子坐不住了,不一会教室里乱了起来。伟伟把强强的帽子摘下来扔掉,强强也不示弱,赶紧回击,教师急忙弹琴组织孩子。师:12345(小朋友坐好)幼儿:54321(老师我坐好),你瞧,有的孩子嘴里虽然唱着,可仍然跟别的小朋友在打闹。于是,教师提高嗓门在唱,孩子们就象没听见......
那天下午班里又出现了上面的镜头,灵机一动我把12345(小朋友坐好)改成(表扬xxx)54321(表扬xxx),当我唱出第一个小朋友的名字时,教室里一下安静了很多,只有伟伟还在跟别的小朋友讲话,我赶紧唱了一句(表扬路伟伟,表扬路伟伟),只见伟伟赶紧坐好了,低着头偷偷在笑,我重点把几个好动的孩子名字唱出来,他们就象变了个人似的,看着平时一群天真、活泼、好动的孩子那副认真的样子,我也背过身来偷偷笑起来。
也许事情很简单,换一种方式就把头疼的问题解决了,我想,只要我们勤动脑,幼儿世界一定变的很美好!
篇3:让点名换种方式
让点名换种方式
每天早上的点名成了一种惯例,小朋友对点名也就是随口用一句“到”就完事了。我发现很多小朋友在点过自己后,就开始注意力不集中了,开始左右讲话,这点很令我苦恼。无意中,在一篇杂志中看到,一位老师的'点名方式非常不一般,她要求小朋友在听到自己名字后,立即起来说一句广告词,小朋友兴趣非常浓。我在想,这种方式用在我们班能否见效呢?第二天早上点名时,我把这种点名方式说给小朋友听,不过,我没让小朋友非得说广告词不可,我要求他们说一句心里最想说的一句话,可以是对老师说,也可以是对小朋友说,还可以说说你喜欢的人、事、物等等。
一下子,小朋友思绪打开了。开始点名了,我发现平时感觉上课不怎么样的小朋友竟然能说出一句话,在我的提醒下,并能完整地表达出来。这天早上,我发现通过这种点名方式,小朋友的注意力集中了,因为大家都在思考着我要说一句什么话?或他会说什么?过程中,我时刻提醒小朋友要把话讲完整,讲通顺,虽然我用这种方式没几天,但我相信,这种方式能带给幼儿促进口语表达能力的作用。
由此,我感慨:作为一名幼儿教师,就要不断的变换自己的各种模式,这样才能更加吸引我们的幼儿,让他们更加积极的配合我们的各项活动。。
篇4:从今天起换种方式生活
“Nobody can go back and start a new beginning, but anyone can start today and make a new ending.”---Maria Robinson
“A year from now you may wish you had started today.”---Karen Lamb
I didn’t really try to improve my life very much until I was 25. Before that I mostly just moved along in the same old rut.
Since then (I’m 32 now) I have tripled my effectiveness, lost more than 30 pounds, adopted a more optimistic view of my life and raised my own self-esteem greatly. I have learned to simplify my life and to inject a lot more happiness into my days and years.
Why am telling you this? Well, the point here is not to brag. My point is that you are not stuck permanently in the life you have now. Even if it may feel that way.
It may sometimes feel like you should have started to change your life earlier, when you were a kid or in your teens or early tweenties. Or that you should have been born into those right circumstances right away as you came to this earth. It may feel like it is too late now.
You may look to your past and tell yourself: “if only had done this or that then things would have been different and better now”. That may be true but you cannot really change the past unless you got a time-machine. And reliving the past in your mind does not change today and this week and month. It just has you hooked on mental reruns that keep you in your regretfilled rut.
It isn’t too late for you to improve something in your life that you really want to change. No matter what age you are at. Over the past 5+ years I have received thousands of emails from readers of all ages – between 14 and 72 – that have told me about how they have changed their life in a positive way.
I understand that you may not be able to change your life in any way you want right now. There are real limits in most people’s lives and personal development isn’t magic that can fix just about anything quickly and easily.
But you can do what you can with what you have where you are right now. Start there.
Make a small change if that is what is possible. From that small change and success you will gain confidence and you can build upon that to make more and perhaps even bigger changes.
4 steps that will make it easier for you to get started
1. Think about what you really want to change.
Maybe you already know it. It could be your social life, your confidence, your health or money situation. Or take a few days to think about it. Take time to focus on this because if you really want something then it becomes a whole lot easier to keep going.
Or let your curiousness guide you. Ask yourself: what would I like to explore in life now? Find one or a few areas to improve or habits you would like to incorporate into your life. Write them down.
2. Choose one thing or habit to focus on for now.
If you have found several things or habits you would like to focus on then choose to focus on just one at a time. Spreading yourself too thin pretty much always leads to failure because life tends to get in the way. If you have a regular life then you’ll probably won’t have the time and energy to change three things at once even though you really hope and think you can.
If you like, choose a theme for a year and focus just on that. I have chosen themes in the past like health and social skills. Then put most of your efforts for 365 days into creating new habits and routines in just that one area.
3. Take small steps.
This is very important. The feeling that something is too big or scary or difficult is one of the most common things to hold people back from taking action at all.
On the other hand, people also tend to overestimate their own willpower. The plan sounds so good in your head but when you execute it then you can’t really take as much action or move as fast as you thought.
Focusing on just one thing at a time and doing it in small steps may feel kind of like something a child would do. I have thought that was the case – like so many other people have in the past – and then fallen flat on my nose after a few days or weeks of trying to change too many things too quickly.
Instead, ask yourself: what is one small step I can take to move forward in this situation?
I use that question pretty much every day in some way and it has been immensely helpful over the last couple of years.
4. Ask yourself: What is one small step I can take right now to get ball rolling ?
Don’t get stuck in planning. Or thinking that you will get started tomorrow or next week. Get the ball rolling instead. Do that today by just taking one small and practical step towards what you want.
篇5:换种方式滑行美文摘抄
换种方式滑行美文摘抄
当有一天要被迫放弃心中所爱,你会怎么做呢?
我喜欢滑旱冰。从小在纽约长大的我,曾经在冬季里最喜欢做的事情就是溜冰和打曲棍球。因为结冰的池塘和河面是免费开放的,不愿意掏钱进旱冰场的我直到差不多20岁的时候才第一次玩旱冰,这玩起来便一发不可收了,不用熬到冬季才溜冰的日子真是爽啊。
日子在旱冰场上急速滑过,我已经成了全场上年龄最老的滑冰者。对此我倒全然不放在心上,有人群的地方就有最老的和最小的,我刚巧就是那个最老的而已。
我们教堂每次组织少年小组去滑旱冰的时候,我总是跟孩子们一起玩得非常尽兴。很多次我都会问冰场边上看着孩子玩的家长。为什么不跟着一起滑。这些父母总是说,年轻的时候也玩,但现在年纪都这么大了,不好意思再玩了。在我面前说年纪太大?老爷子我在场上矫健的身影不就证明了多老都可以滑旱冰吗?
我四五十岁那会儿,依然跟孩子们一起滑旱冰,他们看起来挺喜欢跟我在一起玩的。估计我这个老家伙在他们眼里也算很新奇的一景吧。
大约一年以前,我跟一帮中学生一起滑旱冰,满心想着又能享受滑行的乐趣。但这次不妙了——几十年来第一次。我难以控制自己的平衡,好几次都险些摔倒。我想肯定是我的鞋子出问题了,竞速轮滑鞋穿了也好多年了,也许我该换回休闲轮滑鞋了。
可悲的是,即使换了鞋子,情况照旧。旱冰场曾经是我快乐的所在,现在我的心里却满是忧伤。是啊,我也是年届花甲的人了。我终于意识到自己在旱冰场上快意的日子彻底结束了。最后一次把旱冰鞋从脚上取下,我特别能体味球员在面对自己告别赛时的·心情。我很伤心,像失去了一位旧友。
我问自己。离开自己最喜欢做的事。以后应该怎么办。
我开始教孩子们学习如何滑旱冰。将几十年的心得传授给他们。让他们体会到当年我在冰场上感受的·心情,我俨然已经成了他们忠实的场外拉拉队员。
当教堂的少年小组又组织去旱冰场的时候,我自告奋勇地帮学生们拿旱冰鞋。并惊奇地发现孩子们这么需要别人的.帮助,很多人不知道自己的鞋号或怎么系鞋带。我始终带着微笑去鼓励孩子们,帮他们穿上旱冰鞋。
原来看着别人滑行也是一种美妙的体验。当看见有孩子滑得不错,我及时送上的掌声总是能让他们很开心。对那些滑得不好的孩子,我则鼓励他们“凡事都有个从坏到好、从量变到质变的过程。恭喜你。你现在已经完成了坏的那一部分。我保证下次咱们再来的时候你能表现出好的那部分”。听后他们则会会心一笑。
我还怀念那些自己在旱冰场上英姿勃发的日子吗?谁也不会相信。曾经那么迷恋滑旱冰的我已经不再想念那些穿着旱冰鞋的时光了。虽然在旱冰场上我留下过千金不换的美好回忆。但我曾经在旱冰场上享受到的感觉已经呈现在了我的学生们的脸上。那种快乐又加倍反馈给了我。现在的我换了一种方式滑行,不是用脚。而是用心。我比以往更快乐,笑得也更开怀。你以为所爱离你远去了,其实它只是换种方式来拥抱你而已。
篇6:换种说话方式作文400字
今天我和小轩玩游戏时吵架了,我们争得脸红脖子粗,都愤怒地指责对方错了,我们都发誓:再也不和对方玩了。我们吵得太凶,还动了手,瞿老师把我们叫过去,问我们到底发生了什么。小轩抢着开口:“老师,他说我垃圾。”我争辩道:“我说你玩游戏玩得太差,又不是说你。而且你说我垃圾都不如。”瞿老师笑了:“就这点事,你们就差点来个生死搏斗啊!这样吧,我们不是学过《争吵》这篇课文吗?我们还写过一篇怎么说话才能避免争吵的作文。现在,你们两人回忆一下刚才的情景,让我们换个方式说话。”瞿老师和我们分别交流了“怎么说,友谊的小船才不会说翻就翻”的说话方式后,她把我们带回“案发现场”——走廊,大声说:“好,老师要打开时光通道了,三二一,啊,我们回到了十分钟前的课间。”
“耶!我又赢了!”我欢呼起来,看到垂头丧气的小轩,我对他说,“别泄气,今天我的运气比你好一点,也许明天运气就会来找你了。”
“嗯,谢谢你的鼓励!不过你的技术的确比我厉害一点点。能不能透露一点呢?”
“好啊!”我兴致勃勃地说道,准备传授我的无敌游戏经验了。
多奇妙啊,换一种说话方式,我们一点都没有要吵架的感觉了。
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