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求职信拒绝offer后的

篇1：拒绝offer

Dear Prof. ***:

With great regret I am afraid I will be unable to go to clemson this all. To tell the truth, I have another offer from Dept. of Chem. Eng of MSU which has admitted me into their Ph.D program. This idea never comes to mymind that I am admitted as a Master student, although I am very clear that you will consider me as a Ph.d student and it is only based on the policy ofgraduate school of clemson. But I am really worried that I will meet problems

when applying for the visa because I have heard many many examples in whichpeople fail to get their visa simply because they will pursue MS after they

have got MS in china. During these several days, I discussed this problem with my parents, some teachers as well as some friends who ever experiencedthis process. Most of them suggested that I choose MSU instead because it would have not been a hinderance when applying for visa. I know it will causeyou inconvience because I change my mind, but I wish you could undstand my delimma and forgive my behavior.

I really enjoy our contacts and like your research work very much. I even declined the offer from uml three weeks ago since I think I definitely will go to clemson at that time before I received the admission letter. Your are clearly an outstanding advisor and your research work is very promising. It is really a pity that I can not join you this fall. It is not easy for me to write this email. It is you who give me so much help and suggestion on my application and give me confidence in studying and conducting research in USA. And I really very grateful to your help and consideration on my application. If I have chance to meet you in USA, I will always regard you as my mentor. I wish we could keep in touch in order that I could consult you with academic problems after I go to USA.

Although it has been beyond Apr.15, I know the earlier I tell you my new decision, the less trouble I cause to you. If necessary, I will forward you a written letter to you asking for release of TA offer and also say sorry to all the people who expeceted me. If you temporilly don't have approprite candidates for this TA offer, you may consider Mr. ***, who told me that he also applied for clemson but for dept. of chem. eng. If you are interested in his academic background and research experience, I may let him contact you directly.

I sincerely applogize for any inconvenience that I bring you and deeply regret that I am unable to join you this time. I believe that you could find better student. Your kindness and enthusasim will be in my heart for ever. Best regards

篇2：OFFER拒绝信

Dear Prof. ***,

I have not contacted you for a long time. Because I am exhausted by thinking over my application and camparing my offers with each other. I was informed by another top University that I am awarded a RA(the stipend is $17,460 per year and tuition waived). Because your offer will give me a TA with waived tuition fee($1,425 per month for 9 months only if I get a mark more than 230 in TSE, otherwise, I can only get $1,000 per month).

Some friends told me that it is almost impossible for a new Chinese student to pass this test at the first year. It means I can only get $9,000 first year. I think it may not cover my expense in OSU. So after careful considerasion, I am very sorry to tell you that I am not able to accept your offer, though I always regard your supervision as my first choice and the key of my future achievement.

It is not easy for me to write this email. It was you who helped me re-send my application stuff and get a special dealing, otherwise, I may not get this offer from OSU. I really hope you will forgive me for changing my mind, and I sincerely hope it will not cause too much inconvenience to you. If I have the chance to meet you in US someday, I will always regard you as my mentor.

It is hoped that this notification reach you early enough for a rearrangement. Thank you again for all the assistance you have given to me during my application.

Yours Sincerely,

篇3：offer拒绝信

offer拒绝信

Dear Dr. :

I have received letters of TA and chacellor fellowship offer from the chair, and the I-20 form from graduate colledge. I got lots of help from you during the whole process, Thank you very much.

However, I'm really sorry to tell you that I decided not to attend your school. I have been hesitating among the 9 schools I received for a long time, and it's really hard to reach such a decision. My teachers and my family were involved in the decision. I'm sorry I can't inform you earlier. I hope you can find another better student.

I enjoy our contacts and like your research very much. Also the financial support from your school is fully adequate. You're clearly an outstanding advisor with bright future. It's really a pity I can't join you this fall. May sometime in the future, we can meet in a meeting in U.S.A.

My very best wishes to you.

Sincerely yours

篇4：拒绝offer的书信

关于拒绝offer的书信范例

Dear Dr.XXXI am very fortunate that both your Institute and Stanford give me offer at last. However, it proses to me a very hard problem of choosing indeed, for both are my favorites. I also so know many professors at Stanford come from Rochester such as Professor XXXX.After careful thought and with great reget, I must say I would go Stanford University to further my academic career for several reasons that convince me at last. One of them is Stanford ranks NO.

1 in Phys., E.E.,Graduate School..., which provides with me much more opportunities to be excellent in many potential fields though its optics is not as stronge as Rochester which ranks 1st in Optical Engineering in the world.

Another reason is my best friend I ever had is in the CS department of Stanford Univerity and I really hope to be his schoolmate after a departure of 8 years and 0 kilometers.But here, I still want express again my deep gratefulness to your offer and warm welcome. I hope and am sure we will have opportunite to cooperate in the future.Sincerely yours,XXX

篇5：Graduate Offer

Graduate Offer

Qualifying individuals will automatically receive forty percent off the software package of their choice!

In addition to forty percent off, graduates will make payments of only one hundred dollars per month for the first year!

After the first year, the balance is financed by ORTHO II at zero percent for 48 months!

This offers is gives qualifying individuals 5 years at zero percent!

Systems include software, on-site or web-based training, and full support and enhancements for 5 years.

To qualify for this program you must be in your first year of practice, either as an independent startup, or by purchasing an existing practice.

篇6：offer letter

[Your Name]

[Street Address]

[City, ST ZIP Code]

July 23,

[Recipient Name]

[Title]

[Company Name]

[Street Address]

[City, ST ZIP Code]

Dear [Recipient Name]:

We are pleased to offer you employment at Adventure Works. We feel that your skills and background will be valuable assets to our team.

Per our discussion, the position is contracts administrator in our legal department. Your immediate supervisor will be Linda Moschell, department manager. Your starting date will be Monday, October 13. The starting salary is $38,000 per year and is paid on a bi-weekly basis. The enclosed employee handbook outlines the medical and retirement benefits that our company offers.

If you choose to accept this offer, please sign the second copy of this letter in the space provided and return it to us. A stamped, self-addressed envelope is enclosed for your convenience.

We look forward to welcoming you as a new employee at Adventure Works.

Sincerely,

[Your Name]

[Title]

Enclosure

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篇7：offer是什么意思

语法标注解释 offer英音：['ɔ:fə]美音：['ɔfɚ]

词典解释

及物动词 vt.

1.给予,提供;拿出,出示[O1][(+to)]

He offered me a glass of wine.

他端给我一杯酒，

2.愿意;试图(做某事);提议[Y][+to-v]

They offered to help me.

他们表示愿意帮助我。

He offered to lend me some books.

他表示要借给我几本书。

3.出(价);开(价)[O1]

We offered him the calculator for US$50.

这计算器我们向他开价五十美元，

4.贡献;奉献

不及物动词 vi.

1.提议

2.(机会等)出现

She travels whenever the opportunity offers.

她一有机会就去旅行。

3.献祭

名词 n. [C]

1.提供,提议[(+of)][+to-v]

Thank you for your kind offer of help.

感谢你想给予帮助的好意。

2.出价;报价

网络释义

offer

1.发盘（发价）

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发盘（发价） offer

2.报盘报价

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33. offer 报盘报价

3.提出，提供

酒店英语培训资料(doc 63)

offer 提出，提供

篇8：谁给我Offer呢？

。。。

一大堆工作，却觉得没一个我进的.去的

今天终于把Job版给看了遍

大概是会用term之后，第一次用了这么长时间的WEB，同主题浏览Job版的说。

忽然觉得自己E文是很差，虽然很多东东都能看懂，但是让我自己说自己写，就是impossible的事情了

乱七八糟的投递着简历，心里一点底都没有

或许每一次都是石沉大海，有谁会要偶呢……

等手机响吧，我只能准备+等待

感觉有点像是一种折磨，忽然觉得yixin很幸福，至少未来已经有了着落

莫名的会想起来去年底拒掉一格4.5K的offer。想来如果现在碰到，我应该选择先签掉保底再说……

感觉自己学的很杂，却没有一个精通的。或许是我自己的问题，而工作，往往是要求某一项非常好。。。

唉～等待吧

篇9：Offer:投诉信

Dear Sir/Madam,

I am writing to you to complain about your hotel. I had a terrible stay in room 5012 of your hotel from the 24th to the 26th of August , when I came to Guangzhou on business.

Firstly, the air-conditioning in my room could not be turned down or switched off. When I asked the reception staff to do something about it, they laughed and told me it was better than being hot. I asked your front of house manager and she told me she would send someone to my room immediately. No one came. As a result, I was very cold every time I was in the room.

Secondly, I found the bathroom dirty and the hot water was always warm.

Thirdly, the noise at night was extremely loud and I found it difficult to sleep. I asked to change rooms, but was told it was impossible because the hotel was full. I paid a lot for my stay in your hotel and expect much better service from such a well-known hotel.

In future, I will not be staying at your hotel again and will inform my business associates of the terrible service.

篇10：如何选择offer

。一般来说，毕业生并且语言达到学校专业要求的都是拿到unconditionaloffer(无条件录取通知书)，这个时候确认没有其他的附件条件即可;如果是在读学生拿到的都是conditionaloffer(有条件录取通知书)，这也是多数学生都会拿到的offer种类，此时，应该好好的确认英国大学给出的条件自己在毕业前能否达到，有没有潜在的风险会导致自己达不到校方开出的条件不能入学等等。

2.确认是否缴纳押金：再次确认大学offer给自己的专业是自己希望去就读的专业，并且按照offer要求回复的日期确认接受或者不接受这个offer(很多英国大学会要求缴纳一定数额的押金，必须在院校规定的日期前按照大学要求的方法缴纳;此外，这个押金一旦缴纳，很多大学都是不予退还的)，

3.担保金是否充裕：确认好自己就读的专业学费和其他杂费的情况，是否有奖学金，了解院校基本的`住宿费用的基本情况，算出自己留学的全部成本。初步了解家里或自己留学的担保金是否充足，如果不够的话，可以考虑增加部分资金预算或调换其他费用较低的院校。

篇11：Tender Offer

Tender Offer

A tender offer is a broad solicitation by a company or a third party to purchase a substantial percentage of a companys Section 12 registered equity shares or units for a limited period of time. The offer is at a fixed price, usually at a premium over the current market price, and is customarily contingent on shareholders tendering a fixed number of their shares or units. Under the Securities Exchange Act of 1934, parties who will own more than five percent of a class of the companys securities after making a tender offer for securities registered under the Exchange Act must file a Schedule TO with the SEC. The SEC also requires any person acquiring more than five percent of a voting class of a companys Section 12 registered equity securities directly or by tender offer to file a Schedule 13D.

The filings required by Section 14(d) of the Exchange Act and Regulation 14D provide information to the public about persons other than the company who make a tender offer. The company that is the subject of the takeover must file with the SEC its response to the tender offer on Schedule 14D-9. The rules also set time limits for the tender offer and provide other protections to shareholders. When a public company makes a tender offer for a class of its own equity securities, it similarly must file a Schedule TO and may also need to file a Schedule 13E-3.

Except for the anti-fraud and a few other provisions of Regulation 14E, the SECs tender offer rules generally do not apply to tender offers that result in ownership of five percent or less of the outstanding shares also known as “mini-tender offers.” You can learn more about the risks of mini-tender offers by reading our information on that topic.

篇12：Offer:工作任务

很多外企白领在工作中经常用到英语和别人对话，对话内容涉及汇报工作进度、评价同事、表达观点等各个方面，

1. That's a touchy issue!

这是个辣手的问题！

2. I will be off-site and unreachable for the rest of the afternoon.

我要出去一下，下午就不要找我了。

3. I have totally sold out to your idea.

我百分之百地赞同你的意见。

4. You need to think creatively—outside the box.

你应该跳出惯有思维方式，去创造性地思考。

5. I hope John will join us. He is a fireball.

我希望约翰能加入我们，他是个精力充沛的人。

6. Let's push the boundaries on this project. We need something really innovative! Throw out the conventions, I want something edgy!

让我们冲破这个项目的条条框框，我们得找些真正的创新理念，

不要管那些老惯例，我要的是创新。

7. Make your cubicle neat, tidy and make it a homey charm.

把你的办公桌弄得干净整洁，像家一样温馨。

8. My boss went nuclear on me today.

今天我的`老板对我大吼大叫。

9. His proposal doesn't sit well with manager of the department.

他的议案不太合部门经理的意。

10. Her creative idea won her a lot of oohs and aahs from her co-workers.

她的创意为她赢得了同事们的一片赞叹声。

11. To finish the task in time was a tall order but we did it.

要按时完成这项工作是个艰巨的挑战，但是我们完成了。

12. He did the dirty work on that project.

他在那个项目中做的是吃力不讨好的活儿。

13. I made short work of the assignment and moved on to the next job.

我很快完成了任务，开始下一项工作了。

篇13：Offer回复

Mr. xxxxxxxxxxx

Permanent Address: xxxxxxxxxxxxxx.

xxxxxxxxxxxxx

Sub: Offer Letter

Dear Sir,

With reference to your application and subsequent interview, we are pleased to offer you the job for the post of ‘xxxxxxxx’ in our company, at xxxxxx Branch.

The detailed appointment letter will be given to you at the time of joining. You have to join on or before 27-11-06 otherwise this offer will stand withdrawn automatically.

You will be paid salary as discussed with the undersigned.

You are requested to bring attested copies along with the original certificates/ testimonials at the time of joining the following:

Educational certificates

Experience certificates from previous employers

Copy of resignation / acceptance letter and relieving letter

Three pass port Size photographs

Pass port

Medical fitness certificate

Please contact Ms.xxxxxx in case you require any accommodation or transport facilities so that arrangements will be made for you prior to your reaching to the place here.

Please send us an e-mail/ telegram confirming the receipt of this offer letter as a token of acceptance of terms and conditions mentioned therein.

Thanking You,

FOR xxxxxxxxxxxxx

篇14：强生offer

强生offer

——“我们建议您尽早投递简历，根据我们校园招聘计划，在线投递简历的最后期限为20

10月31日，”

踏着31的小尾巴，我将自己投递给了那个“因爱而生”的公司。它的中文名实在优雅到了

极点是吗？是，再无可能有超过它绵绵意向所指的任何其他名称了。嗅到“因爱而生”的

logo，我就像小兔子小扑向前。

去看看强生的广告，可以品出这个公司的趣味。每一句话，都是在给诸位打气：“强生相

信，我们的身边有这样一些巨人……”；“只要你正直、善良、脚踏实地，坚持或者放弃

，妈妈都支持你”；“你在她心里头一直是英雄……”（强烈推荐去视频网站看J&J的广告

）

能让我柔软到心里的广告不多，强生大踏步的做到了。题外飞言：各位找工作的同学，一

定要信赖自己的妈妈，虽然她们可能处在更年期（多么令人伤感），可能不懂4C或是4A，

可能对积极进取、昏天黑地的你无甚帮忙，只好唯唯诺诺。但心里头，我们永远是妈妈的

小宝贝，妈妈永远试图去爱护她的小宝贝。这个女人在把全部韶华献出来后，孩子终于长

大了，他/她却越来越觉得妈妈的渺小，巴不得远走高飞。母亲就处在这样既渴望孩子长大

又害怕孩子长大、不得不面对孩子长大的历史漩涡中，一并看见一个女人年轻时的权威感

和容颜凋落随风。恐怕对大多数人而言，这样的心路只有自己老去时才能体会到了。但我

还是要大声提醒，找工作虽然辛苦，一定不要忘记多听听她的意见，多跟她说说话，不要

让她觉得自己没有用。是妈妈的爱，让我们成长，让我们成为英雄。我们要永远爱妈妈。

妈妈是港湾，如果你承认你的确是“长大”的。当然，还有爸爸。有谁说过，女人的美是

外扩型的，男人的美是内敛型的，我们要让爸妈的美在自己身上汇合，做一个hermaphrod

itus的孩子吧，不该是“石猴子”。

四、

11月5日，接到强生的笔试通知信。上BBS看往届的题目，以综合知识测量为多。11月8日

上午晚起了，匆临华工五山，险些迟到。题目全是汉语，大体和公务员差不离，做得比较

轻巧。遇到了同班丫头叶绿素，小姑娘傻傻的说当时花了五分钟做例题，估计没戏了。谁

知丫头最后进了PG，也是做销售管培。（题外话：一直很欣赏上进的丫头）。。。。。。

旁边考试的姐姐是华工食品专业毕业一年的研究生，地产公司绩效不好，嫩生生的将她裁

了。后来在一面时又见到了她，老实说，从那时起，我对女生的同情心就渐长。“女人花

摇曳在红尘中，女人花虽风情千百种……”无奈社会是个只顾填肚子的巨兽，牛嚼牡丹也

见怪不怪了。

（以下partly摘自日记）

一切付出和承受都会有回报。就像燕子衔泥终会有窝一样。14号下午，中大南校培训公寓

展开一面，貌似8个房间同时进行。政务学院去的还挺多的呢，公关班的LB小伙儿就是挺欣

赏的一个哥们。大家穿着很正式，以后如果穿成这样去搞销售，人家非得以为俺们是国安

局的不可。远道而来的朋友还有深圳的哥们GL。想想我们中大的、广州的学生毕竟坐收了

许多地利，心里又是一凛。潮汕等远地儿的朋友们，一定要挺住啊。路途虽遥远，可是想

想古人，还是要方便了很多。

写到这里，我开始调整思维，感谢运道。一号房，我被邀请到一号房间面试。进去前我开

始催眠自己，将仪容调配到最佳状况：鸟语花香，春光明媚，一束ray of angel从豁亮的

天宇照下来，洒在我的身上，我在轻松而略略激动的氛围中，要和“失散多年”的“远房

大哥”见面了。是的，我是去叙旧，会会老友，是命运把他带到我身边的。和则两利，不

和就走人，这没啥好说的。我倒是很愿意通过他，来看到更真实的自己。

一进门发现床上被窝蓬松，主考官大人正在接电话，示意让我先等等。我坐在小茶几旁，

看他30多岁年纪，和蔼可信，松松手提醒自己“心平常，自非凡。”接过电话，他笑着摊

开我的简历，让我先介绍自己。我就老老实实的说了自己的背景、几个优势，心态什么的

，算是挑起话题。我提到了自己在校辩论队比赛、少年宫做翻译、交换生、实习、参加综

合竞赛等经历，他也很有兴致的听，一边来回翻简历。我一直保持比较慢的语速，而且很

开心的诉说，希望气场可以刚刚好。他问到我缺点，我老实说“我有很多缺点，而且不少

是在我自己不知情的情况下养成的，但是我一定会正视它们，并且一辈子用美德、友善和

勤奋来补足。”他笑言“不要不自信嘛”。不过我真的认为一个人的缺点必须要正视。与

其说一些不痛不痒人畜无害的东西，不如展露真实的自己。我直接坦白我的思想太繁复了

，“简约的力量亟待加强，过犹不及”等等。他微笑着告诉我，你的能力我知道了，我估

计你进二三面都没有问题，关键是你想不想做销售，你仔细想想，三分钟后告诉我。很突

然的方式！但是很有派头！然后他就接起了电话，略微听到电话里传来女儿甜甜的声音，

好像是问他周末在哪里吃饭。然后他就很自然的流露出成功男人的那种护犊爱家的情怀，场面分外温馨。我想起了

两个画面：多年前我在香江野生动物世界看见一个开轿车的男人带着一家几口停在长颈鹿前面拍照，儿子格外兴奋

；二沙岛上一位年轻母亲在辆SUV旁收拾什么，一个背书包戴棒球帽的小男孩开心的'放学回来。

当然，我是不敢让思绪飘得太远。确定自己的想法后，我很坚定的告诉他我喜欢销售。并

且我把强生的文化摆成了一个重要理由。

最后他还问我有无问题，我准备得实在不够好。1.强生除了现在的综合医疗保健护理，未

来有无可能拓展其他领域？答：“我只负责强生中国有限公司方面的，所以你还是问这方

面吧。2.您进强生之前的设想是否与现在的生活状况基本一致？答：基本是吧！我养活我

的家庭，她们很幸福。我进强生已经了，我有足够的经验看出你行。既然行，就没有

必要浪费别人的时间了，你的能力……但我比你会做人……希望你可以……加油！”

感谢他给我的信心。一个很好的强生人！他眼光非常老辣，后来想起来，虽然他毫不“凶

狠”，接电话“漫不经心”，实际上我的一举一动他洞若观火。之前也没想过掩饰，HR大

概都会料事如神。作为一个成功者，如果可以给后辈一些忠告和鼓励，尤其是鼓励，真诚

的鼓励，是堪比赐予仙丹灵露的。我虽然对自己一直都有信心，可是这样的鼓励还是很少

听到。心里居然更多的涌起了感动。临走前，我向他要了电邮，不管能不能录取，以后都

想向他多多请教。事后得知，这个交朋友的无心之举，无形中可能加分了。他说当天也有

另外一个中大女生向他要了电话，让他印象深刻。可见，适时的主动还是有好处的。如果

你真正把他们当成远房亲戚，就不会畏惧了，有的只是热忱。

那天下午邀QH哥们一起出来吃饭，在永芳堂签的金色草地上照相。（本人喜欢随身带相机

）之后去了珠江边，一个流浪歌手吸引了我俩。他的唱功不弱，沧桑是弦。我坐在石凳上

静静的听，远处朗润的江风一阵阵吹拂，匆匆路人谁也不肯停下脚步。一只狗嗅过来，很

快被牵走了；童车里的小孩回头使劲张望，妈妈快步将他推过。我将西服顶在头上躲开闹

哄哄的蚊子家族，望着或明或暗的隔江风景，倥偬如隔世。那一可，时间是静止的，灵魂

是休息的。我对流浪歌手有着深深的敬意，尽管他们因自己的选择拒绝了微笑歌颂生活的

本能。他很真实，他自食其力，他一点星光夜穿天，强压了众生的魔咒。

五、

二面在区庄立交前的东山广场。强生公司在16楼，下面有耐克公司等。一面过后，我等啊

等，等得实在是有点焦虑。我虽然反复告诫自己“不以物喜，不以己悲”，超然物外，“

举世夸而不自傲，举世非而不沮丧”，实际上还是有点性急了。从14号一面到24号，中间

是长长长长的时间。期间我忍不住向一面面试官询问，他很耐心的回复电邮和短信，让我

不要急，并且表示万一没有果子的话，他会不惜调整私人时间帮忙安排我去二面。想来真

是太急了，人家事务繁忙，还要接受我这小小的“没完没了”。谢谢他，他教会我很多，

如何去鼓励别人、帮忙别人，如何给他人机会和力量，这些都是我以后要努力做到的方向

。幸运的是，23号下午，我收到了上海ChinaHR打来的电话，告诉我24号下午二进宫。这样

，我在期许和微微的焦急中顺利走到群面。不过近二面之前，我已经开始渐渐平静了心态

，

我知道了等待的真正含义，那就是欣赏和帮助一株玫瑰的成长。

提前三十分钟到，被接引到讨论室坐下，名牌都写好了。六人中四人中大，一个广外，还

有一个是武大毕业在渣打工作的姐姐。我们提前聊了起来，无非就谈谈地地域、饮食、语

言什么的，舒缓一下心情，加深了解。话不能太多，也不能太少。多则暴露太多，有可能

导致一会儿说话的兴趣下降；话太少则会导致不自信或者缺乏了解。只要始终微笑着有礼

貌的倾听就好了，可以适时插播一点评论，附议一下观点，不要给人有攻击感或者强势感

。实际上，我们大多数人都不是aggressive的，何必要为了进公司而开发所谓的狼性呢？

女生一定要化妆，我就赞美咱们的女队员很漂亮。聊天时某些人可能显得很能说，甚至会

让你对下轮的群面效果产生焦虑。那就不妨这么想吧，会哭的孩子不一定有奶吃，说到点

上才最重要。君子蓄势待发、含而不露，斗而不破。女君子就一直保持笑容吧。爱笑的女

孩子，运气总不会差。

中文讨论，三个HR笔录，地球遭受彗星撞击，有毒气体扩散，只剩下15个人躲在地下，食

物只够支持15天，只能留下5个人，问如何选择。诸如（细节不清了）1.李先生，白人，历

史学博士，身体健康；2.林女士，黄种人，心理学硕士，体质较差；3.林先生，黑人，体

育明星，同性恋；4.张太太，68岁，心脏病学家；5.小王，黄种儿童，托福高分等等。我

们小组温文尔雅，每个人都说了足够多。我们决定采用三大评判标准：1.人类的繁衍；2.

性别与种族的均衡；3.相关文明的传承。并且采用排除法。

总体说，这道题很能看出一个人的思辨能力，尤其是从不同角度看问题和最后根据重要指

标整合目标的能力。我充当了一个启发型和服务型的leader，从多个角度提出参考，让大

家讨论，尽量兼顾每个人的发言。“leader”在中国语意中有点被曲解了。我宁愿用soci

al worker（社工）这个词。那个人应当是启发大家一起把思维之火点亮的，真正的leade

r应是团结人、启发人、带领人而不是压制人、郁闷人的，尤其当大家都很聪明时。

自告奋勇做了呈词人，并请大家补充。可能是这段时间看凤凰卫视的何润峰的节目看多了

，搞得我说起话来都多了几分他的色调，可我其实并不喜欢他。在辩论队的积累还是大大

的有效果的，我赢得了队员们的掌声，出来时大家都夸我做得很好。送深圳渣打的姐姐上

了地铁，大家伙都不容易。晚上就收到了25日下午三面的通知，而且我们组进三面的还有

好几个同学呢！

和这几个二面同组的同学着实有感情，祝愿大家一路走好，我们是朋友。

六、

25号下午终面，上午肯定再得贮备点强生的知识。上网记了下发展史大略。而它的广告才

是真正吸引了我，我是抽着鼻子看的，心中暖意融融。

下午来到强生，先填一份求职情况表。然后被带到单房内，在30分钟内做一个推荐自我的

全英PPT，面对HR，做15分钟最后陈述。轮到我时，电脑居然死机，搞了半天才开始。想来

点创意，又怕不适宜，最后还是中规中矩的搞了个PPT，放上了自己的教育背景，优点，性

格，实习经历，获奖经历，朋友（特别将“朋友”单列出来）等。每一个面都用一两个最

典型的例子来述说。最开始说的英语明显走型，毕竟好久没哇啦了，之后好了些。Ellen和

Stuart教授的风范多多少少还是让我学到了些，而比较得当的肢体语言（至少不僵硬）多

少应能让评委感觉舒适。人说80%的沟通是由肢体语言决定的，兹体甚大矣。要走动，要根

据内容适时变化手势，眼神要灵泛，语气诚恳第一，含笑第二，高低变化第三，幽默第四

。若非放松的厉害，一般不会有幽默，否则效果寒死个人，不如不用。

关键是评委提问，四大HR一字排开，眼光如炬。左边的HR哥哥明显是内才型（事实也证明

了），表情就像大学生听课的那种；左边第二个应是组别里最高级别的HR，该中年男士抬

头看我的时间不超过半分钟，全程基本低头，表情严肃，很有气质；第三个姐姐开始似乎

一直用一种疑惑的眼神看着我，眉头不是很开；第四个HR一职含笑不语。一个HR手里一直

拿着手机，不知是不是在催促我快讲；表情疑惑的HR姐姐让我一开始就觉得倍受挑战。我

告诉自己，人的表情不能说明太多问题，关键是自己要真挚、积极、有信心。于是我便在

他们眼神的拷问下一一应答，不急不慢刚刚好，也不太将眼神投向第四个微笑的HR寻求庇

佑，相反，我试图用和煦的眼神融化他们“心中的冰山”。他们的问题基本针对我的介绍

展开，用的是通常的提问维度。

问我怎样看待销售的一天，答曰：我并不介意拎着包在大街小巷穿寻，接受上至高级经理

人下至普通店铺老板的挑战和交情（其实无所谓上下）。我真的喜欢与人接触，销售人员

每天无论在哪里都不能缺少清晰的分析能力、良好的沟通能力以及脚踏实地、充满自信、

永不言败、体贴入微的实干精神。

问：你的那些个才华可能早年不会有太多机会发挥，你怎么办？答曰：所谓的才能是为目

标服务的，目标需要怎样的实现路径，我就怎样走。而且我确信它们会带来切实帮助的。

问：你有什么爱好吗？答：。。。。。。喝水，喝水让我镇定。

请我叙说一件失败的事情。我说了北极选拔止步15的故事。

问：你是党员吗？（第三个HR姐姐问的，我注意到她的眉头越来越舒展，此时已经含笑了

，真漂亮）答曰：No，I want to be more humane.(笑声)

问：你认为在这三面选手当中排第几？答曰：我的特质老师们都看到了，我自己也自信保

持领先。我一般不用best这个词来形容人，因为这不人道，也不真实。我追求的是unique

，做独一无二的、真实的自己。而一个真实的自己、独一无二的自己，经历史检验发现，

是真正适合这份工作的。

其他问题一一奉上。

正准备告辞，HR哥哥突然抛出一张纸，问：你能用中文解释一下“空即非空”的意思吗？

我咯噔了一下，联系上个星期旁听罗一平老师博雅课上提到的“超以象外。。。。。。以

应无穷。。。。。。”做了一番空明拳法的解释。HR哥哥告诉我对了50%，管他呢，见仁见

智。出来时把电脑上的PPT关掉了，道了声谢谢就微笑离场了。

出来继续填表，正好碰见HR哥哥出来倒水，我赶紧请教“空即非空”的意思。顺道又说了

一通自己的理解，并请他赐张名片讨教。当晚我发邮件给他，再次谈了谈对“空即非空”

的理解，并致谢。实际上，我觉得这是上天给我的一个提醒。不要追求绝对完美的“空”

，真正的空蕴藉在“非空”中。“空”和“非空”的关系可以作为我们修行现实世界的法

门。我们要的是在平常生活中悟道，因为生命的每一个环节每一处场所都当是修习的道场

，对于每一场生命的邀约，惟正心诚意、全力以赴、欢欢喜喜方能圆满。

回家后大写日记，回味不已，但对前面路途的紧张和不安恐怕还难以根绝。此时日记就是

心灵排毒和疗伤的最好的药了。有了这些记忆，生命才不会像是白纸一张，自家《史记》

才有可能在历史的长河中做一叶载我们驶向无垠的小船。

七、

像德涅泊尔河从忐忑走向宽广和未来。在不变的日子中慢慢静心，本来这个世界该咋样就

还是咋样。中途发生了印度Bombay的爆炸案，不由得为印度人民忧心，那些业已去世的人

可知和平相处相亲相爱的重要？七里八里的事情一多，也就不再日夜去看田埂上的秧苗，

放到一边吧，任其自成正果或者复归平寂。谋事在人，成事在天，尽人事，听天命。工作

当重视，可它的确不是生命的唯一。生命的维度那么丰富，我只要活着，就会每天争取开

开心心，积极向上，用生命中的点滴积累去温暖这个星球上的千山万水，众生芸芸。好不

容易有一次做人的机会，一定是因爱而生了。

12月1日晚跑到南校区Ellen&Stuart家，享受并不好吃的韩国混饭、蘑菇泥、蔬菜沙拉的同

时，敞开心扉交流。这对夫妇希望我坚守古老的灵魂（an old soul），塑造健全的人格、

健康的心态，保有宏观的视角和进步的理念。他们一直以来的启发、关爱、无言的教诲是

我感激不尽的。他们是人类的骄傲。

中间的招聘会也去看了看，更多时候是泡泡书，投投简历，喝喝水，听讲座，到中大最可

爱的白房子看记录片，结识朋友。我的大学时光可能就要“青春小鸟一去不复返”了，趁

着这最后的最好的时光，我一定要完成若干未了的心愿。哪怕注定毕业后要迎来空档期，

也无妨。生命赐给的，总是精彩。只要你怀抱faith，迎风迎雨总能迎太阳。

然后就到了现在。12月6号上午，接到J&J的HR电话，问我意向是广州还是深圳。我想到了

深圳的活力和活力之中一批如同荣荣姐那样的人。没有惊喜若狂，也非淡然处之，一种浅

浅的感慨，人生又要向前滚动了。

一切都将过去，而过去的，都将成为可爱。

学会相信，学会淡守。

问他的，必应答；敲门的，必打开。这地球上的玩物，都不浮华，不枯燥，都可供勤奋劳

作之人享用。

环境其实并没有那么糟糕，这个信心的失去是国家经济面走低和个人失去前景的根本原因

。哪怕黑云压城城欲摧，也可以甲光向日金鳞开。我们是不是确保了自家田地里头的风景

独好呢？

佛家有云“应无所住而生其心”，殊不知“因爱而生其心”亦为世间坦途，尤对于两眼张

望、千里奔波、不胜迷惘者而言。

只要你正直、善良、脚踏实地，坚持或者放弃，我们都支持你。

篇15：Definition of OFFER

Definition of OFFER

transitive verb

a : to present as an act of worship or devotion : sacrifice

b : to utter (as a prayer) in devotion

a : to present for acceptance or rejection : tender

b : to present in order to satisfy a requirement

a : propose, suggest

b : to declare one's readiness or willingness

a : to try or begin to exert : put up

b : threaten

5: to make available : afford; especially : to place (merchandise) on sale

6: to present in performance or exhibition

7: to propose as payment : bid

篇16：offer什么意思

offer作名词的意思：

提议;出价，开价;试图;求婚

offer作动词的意思：

提供，给予;提出，提议;出价，开价;表示愿意

offer的英语音标：

英 [ˈɔfə] 美 [ˈɔfɚ, ˈɑfɚ]

offer的时态：

现在分词： offering 过去式： offered 过去分词： offered

offer的英语例句：

1. Slimming snacks that offer miraculous weight loss are a con.

有神奇减肥效果的瘦身点心是一个骗局。

2. Leningrad was the third alien city to offer him a surrogate home.

列宁格勒是他在异地安家的第三个外国城市。

3. Contemporary African cinema has much to offer in its vitality and freshness.

当代非洲电影在活力和新颖性上颇足称道。

4. I still think I have a bit more to offer.

我还是认为我能再稍微多付出一点儿。

5. You may feel unworthy of the attention and help people offer you.

你可能会觉得自己不值得别人关心和帮助。

6. Some shoppers looked bewildered by the sheer variety of goods on offer.

光是摆在那里的各式商品就让一些购物者晕头转向了。

7. They offer tips on topics such as home safety.

他们就家居安全等问题提供建议。

8. Both offer excellent value at around £90 for a double room.

两家的双人客房都报出了大约90英镑的超值价格。

9. The men voted by a four-to-one majority to accept the pay offer.

男雇员以4比1的多数票接受了工资条件。

10. The lawyers say no one else will make me an offer.

律师说不会再有人给我出价了。

11. I thanked him for the offer but turned it down.

我谢绝了他的提议。

12. They would have to offer cast-iron guarantees to invest in long-term projects.

他们需提供绝对可靠的担保，才能投资长期项目。

13. He will offer the first harvest of rice to the sun goddess.

他将把收获的第一束稻子献给太阳女神。

14. Eventually Sam persuaded her to accept an offer of marriage.

最终萨姆说服她接受了求婚。

15. This new design will offer undreamed-of levels of comfort, safety and speed.

这种新设计将会给您带来意想不到的舒适、安全和快捷。

篇17：圆通和爱普瑞斯的笔试经验：看我如何拒绝他的offer

圆通和爱普瑞斯的笔试经验：看我如何拒绝他的offer

圆通快递宣讲的时候一直在吹嘘我们圆通在速递行业是怎么怎么的牛啊，业务范围是怎么怎么的广啊balabala，最后说到待遇问题的时候他们羞羞答答地说包吃包住3.5k/月。虽然包吃包住，但还是忒少了啊，而且还是在上海。

笔试：刚开始当场就走了一大票人。我和舍友当时也想走来着的，但是来都来了拿个 offer再走吧。于是便愉快地留下来笔试面试了。笔试非常非常的牛皮，一张卷子上全是智力题和开放性题目，就一道选择题是专业知识题。开放性题里面有一道题是玄武湖的湖水有多少升，我果断机智地写了3500万升，机智地嘲讽他们的'3500块的月薪。最后那道专业题还挺难，经过我细致的分析加猜测之后选了个答案，最后hr公布答案时发现错了，很是忧伤。

面试：八个人一组。报研发的正好16人，我们是第二组。然后俩hr开始问问题，大家抢答。第一个问题竟然是大学里印象深刻的记忆是什么!大家争先恐后地回答。专业知识类的就问了一个java和c/c++的区别。我果断第一个回答，我很机智地把能说的劝说了，后面的人就没什么好说的了，

然后就是上黑板写排序算法，这回我机智多了，第一个上去刷刷刷写完了。然后就回来了。

Offer: 过了一周，圆通来电话说给offer，我和我的那个舍友都拿到了，于是我们愉快地拒了。

南京爱普瑞斯软件面试经历 – 拒了它的Offer

南京爱普瑞斯软件，一家美国企业，显示电话面试，过了。过几天通知我去他们公司笔试面试，

笔试面试全英文。笔试分行测、英语作文和专业知识，三张试卷，做了一上午。中午给了张餐券。

下午面试。面试是3:1的面试，总经理加俩主管面的，问的全是数据库知识，除了一个关于事务(transaction)的问题我不会以外，其他都回答挺好。最后那总经理非得让我问他们问题，我说了半天I have no questions，他强调了半天you can ask us whatever you want to know。最后问了他两三个问题他们才放我走。

整个面试持续了大概四十分钟，英文实在捉急啊。第二天就给我打电话让我次日去谈 offer。当时在软通动力实验室笔试面试，接到这个电话还小激动了下，毕竟是人生中第一个offer。第二天谈offer时总经理跟我说试用期工资(4800+300)，13薪，但正式工资公司保密，转正后才能知道，于是果断拒了。